What's your love story?
09.06.2025 01:47
I am usually a pretty calm and patient guy who rarely ever gets angry but this time I had just lost it but I refused to do anything because It was also “A” ‘s fault that she allowed “U” to brainwash her. “A” started to say that everything that we had done was all a lie and that I was a big liar and she even started these rumors in her boyfriend’s school and from a few friends who knew her boyfriend I got to know that all this was her boyfriend’s doing. I was very confused as to who was doing what and around that time I had just left the fact that I would ever talk to her.
Then suddenly her message came on Discord
A-”yeah so me and “D” had sex two weeks ago”
Later that day I was talking to a girl in our class about a school project coming up and suddenly the topic shifted to relationships and crushes and I told her about her and she said-
“I really really liked you fuck I loved you “A” but you fucked up you just destroyed everything we had and now that no one is there for you, you come back to me it were the older me I would’ve probably said yes but this is different now first you fucked me up and now after you are fucked up you come back to me I am sorry but no I can’t and I won’t be with you or do anything with you”
That was it.
I had no idea what I had done and what she was talking about, I told this to my friends and they just said forget her man she’s gone but how could I after everything that happened between us how could I forget her just like that. Due to this I couldn’t focus on my studies and I was just messed up at that point.
Several months passed and I was completely moved on (atleast I thought so) and around in December I was at a birthday party of a friend of mine and was sitting with one of “A” ‘s exes as he also played the guitar so we were discussing things and then suddenly I got a message from “A”- “Hey, it’s been long just saw you on (random girl)’s story and was thought about catching up” I showed it to “A” ‘s ex and we decided not to respond to her .
I messaged back and asked her about why she did all this and she told me that she was told to do so by “U” and her boy friend and she agreed. I didn’t ask anything about all this to her anymore and focused on having a casual conversation and then she told me that she recently had sex with her boyfriend and now he had left her and she needed someone . After reading this I did not respond to anything
The 10th boards happened and it went well for me as well as “A” and on the last day of 10th I said lets meet in 11th. Now the thing is I’m pretty sure she knew I really liked her because I don’t know what happened but she got up and kissed me on the cheek and the rest of the holiday went very well.
I would like to end with a quote-
After that day we didn’t talk to each other for another 2 weeks
She answered-
You might be wondering that did my parents not say anything, the thing is my parents were pretty much my friends and I think if you have to hide something from your parents then you should be ashamed. My parents were clear about all this as long as I get the grades I am free to do all this but it should be under a certain limit.
During this time my Best friend broke up with his 5th girlfriend “U” too.
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We managed to get away from the mad guy and I was still the happiest guy on the planet as my crush had just held my hand but that happiness didn’t last for long. So I play the guitar and was looking for a drummer so that I can start a band and when I told her this she said “ well my boyfriend plays the drums do you wanna meet him?” and I was taken aback, it was like someone had just stabbed me and I didn’t know what to say so i just told her “Oh, I did not know you had a boyfriend well I’ll meet him next time I have to go somewhere” and I ran back home and just sat there staring into nothingness.
“And tell me this “A” if I was your backup option why did you give me hope? why did you hold my hands?, why did you sleep on my shoulder?, why did you spend countless hours with me to watch movies and series?, why did you introduce me to your family and built a relationship with my family?, why did you sit with me?, why did you promise me things that you would always be there for me, that I would always be stuck with you, that you would never leave my side? why did you kiss me? why did you give me false hope it must’ve been all fun and games for you but It really hurt I can’t do this anymore I’m really sorry but you’ve crossed my limit and that’s it right now my career is my priority and I don’t care what you do but please for my sake and your’s too dont call this number again”
A-”It’s been soo long and I miss u soo much please talk to me and don’t ignore me and now even “D” has left me for some other girl I need someone please be with me I really want you with me”
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This was a failed one sided love story with a bad ending to the relationship but a good ending to my life
I was a teenager back then and me and my parents had just shifted to a new house and I had gotten myself admitted into a very reputable school. The school started from 14th of April I vividly remember that day, it was a very sunny day and I boarded the bus for my first day at the new school after a minute the bus stopped at the society right beside us and the students started to board the bus, it was at that moment when I saw her (Let’s name her “A”) and I was immediately mesmerized. We held eye contact for like 5 seconds and that’s it but deep down I was damn sure that this is what “love at first sight” means.
me- (I screamed at her)”WHY THE FUCK DO YOU THINK I WOULD WANT TO BE WITH YOU NOW?! THIS JUST SHOWS THAT I WAS JUST THE BACKUP OPTION FOR YOU AND NOTHING ELSE. YOU WOULD COME TO ME ONLY WHEN THERE WOULD BE NO ONE ELSE WHY DID YOU DO THIS TO ME?!”
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me- (i did not say anything)
The rest of the day was pretty well and nothing exciting happened and then during dispersal I was sitting all alone in the bus (as I was a new student) and “A” was sitting 2 seats in front of me with her friend after 3–4 mins she looked back at me and smiled and resumed talking with her friend at that moment my smile just cracked and it wouldn’t go away.
She had also started talking to me less and less and had gotten even closer to her boyfriend after they had kissed ( Like the proper kiss). I don’t know how dumb can someone be but I had still not given up on my hopes and was thinking that I still had a chance.
“It’s better to be healthy alone
Now these things continued for a week or so and then one day during dispersal when I boarded the bus i went and sat at the last seat, after some time “A” also boarded the bus and came and sat right next to me. I was confused as what to do but then she suddenly started talking to me ( I am a relatively quiet guy so I didn’t know what to talk about with her) about absolutely random things and we instantly hit it off and soon enough we were making plans about our futures and about the things we like and the things we don’t and I returned home as a very happy guy.
But the next day when she boarded the bus she came and asked me “ Can I sit with you?” and I said “Sure” (trying to hide my smile) and since then for the whole year we sat in the bus together, went to our classes together and even roamed around during the recess together.
Let’s name My bestfriends 5th girlfriend as “U” as she will come back later on
Later that day i messaged “A” that I was really sorry about what happened today during recess and it’s nothing like that. The first question “A” asked me was how I got her number so I honestly told her that a mutual friend had given it to me and after that we just continued talking it was as if time was just flying by and we had no idea about it and after a while I realized 3 hours had passed away while chatting with her. I was using all the knowledge gained from my friend who had told me everything about her to surprise her
“Oh “A” from “X” society” and I said “yes, do you know her??” she said “oh yes we were best friends back in 8th grade I can help you if you want” and of course I said yes and then for the next half an hour she told me everything about her - her likes, dislikes, favorite song, about her pet and what not and she even gave me her number.
“Just Stay away from me you fucking bitch I HATE YOU, I don’t know why I got so close to you, you fucking liar” after that she just blocked me.
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Now 11th had started and our bus routes had changed sadly but we still met regularly in school and every Tuesday and Thursday she would come over to my house or society to meet me but then suddenly it all stopped.
I recently got into my dream college and she is still struggling to get into a local college and that is all the difference now
A- “It was crazy but he left me”
I had taken science and she had taken commerce and I was not able to talk to her as much as before because I was getting more serious about my career and around that time I had also joined the gym and was spending my free time there.
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me-“Yes”
I asked a girl who is a very close friend of mine to find out what happened it took her about a month to find about the details but all this was caused by “U” (My best friend’s 5th girlfriend) the thing is she wanted revenge on my friend and didn’t know what to do so she thought about destroying my relationship with “A” and she did this by completely brain washing “A”. I had warned “A” at the start of the term about “U” because I knew something like this could happen but I lost.
I asked “ What have I done wrong?”
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The next day I told this to my friends and they said “leave it to us , teri bandi patwa kar rahenge( We’ll make sure that you get her) “ and they got to work now the thing is one of my best friends is the school’s playboy and during that time he had already dated 4 girls and was with his 5th and everyone in the class knew about me and “A”.
The next day when she boarded the bus she waved at me and I suddenly felt something that I still don’t know how to express it was as if everything had vanished and it was just her infront of me and nothing else.
She messages (and these messages were crazy)
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With the help of “S” I was able to get even closer to “A” in fact she even invited me to her house multiple times during vacations to watch a movie or a series.
Then one day she asked me to visit her as I lived in the society right beside hers so in the evening after my studies were over I went and met her so we were walking in the basement and then suddenly a man who was drunk came over and started shouting at us we didn’t know who he was but he just started shouting and swearing at us and then suddenly I felt something on my hand and I saw that she had held my hand and I at that moment it was like I didn’t care what what going on but I knew I wouldn’t let her go now.
“Please stay away from me”
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So my friends got to work and successfully became friends with “A”’s girl best friend “S” who agreed to help me get “A”. I’m a pretty okay looking guy(6 or 7/10) whereas “A” is probably like an 9 or 9.5/10 so I knew that my chances with her were pretty slim as her boyfriend was better looking than me and was athletic and went to the gym and was popular whereas the only upperhand I had were my academics(I was in the top 3 in the school at all times)and Music.
I was class 10th at that time and the pre boards were getting closer so during the weekends I would go the her house and clear all her doubts due to this even her parents started liking me and they even talked to my parents about me and “A” and our “friendship” and soon enough if there were cricket matches or football matches me, my father and “A” ‘s father all three of us used to watch the match together it was as if we were family.
By that time I had made 2 friends at school so I told them that I had a crush on the girl “A” and I don’t know what to do about it so one of friends during the recess went in front “A” class and screamed that I had a crush on her. “A” was standing right outside and was startled and I was very embarrassed I told her that it was nothing like that and he was just joking.
The last paragraph is not all true but it was all that i was thinking during that call
She did not call me after that the last chat we had was in February as I wished her on her birthday and she said thank you
she started calling me then but i didn’t pick up and after like 7 missed calls I finally picked up the phone and she started sobbing
(it was very very cringe I still have the chats and holy shit I was really really cringe even though I still am but that was a whole next level of cringe)
So, this was a one sided love story which happened almost 3 years ago
I even showed the message to my best friend’s girlfriend ( she is like a younger sister to me we’ve been childhood friends) and then another message came “You can leave me on seen but I’ve been missing us I’m very very sorry about what I did I was very bad and i regret every moment of it please I know you won’t forgive me but please atleast talk to me”
The story is true and I wasted 1.5 - 2 years of my life on a toxic girl and didn’t realize how toxic she was before it was too late
A-“So you remember “D” right?” (D is her boyfriend)
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